Bound to Happen or Bad Rap?

There is something magnificent about the back of a woman’s neck or the gentle sloping curve of her hip – or his. There’s a certain kind of splendor to silk slipping sensuously off a shoulder and yet, even these delectable delights are not the makings of real intimacy...

The “I” Word

I know that I have finely tuned antennae when it comes to relationships. After all, I grew up in an empty room. My mother was an alcoholic and my Dad never showed up emotionally for anyone unless it served his ego or made him look good to the congregation ladies. And...

Do You Want To Dance?

Ram Dass (formally Richard Alpert) tells the Sikh story of the Holy person who gave each of two of his disciples a chicken and said ” Go kill the chicken where no one can see.” One of the students went behind a fence and killed the chicken. The other...